A sense of humour can make everything better. Sex isn’t like it is in the movies or in porn. There will be strange and weird and awkward sounds, there might be a silly interruption like the cat or a kid… you might knock heads or trip getting undressed. Sex is funny, foreplay is funny and sometimes you need to just laugh. It will keep things from getting awkward! If you take sex too seriously you aren’t truly enjoying it!
Not to mention a sense of humour can be really sexy no matter what your gender identity is!
I love this post so much omg
sometimes you can tell who you’re ACTUALLY intimate with, when you’re so comfortable making jokes and doing weird stuff in the middle of ~sexual stuff. When people make sex to be this whole ~srs mature thing, it feels as if they were trying to force intimacy. And if it needs to be forced, then it probably wasn’t there to begin with.
Favorite part of sex with someone: when it’s super obvious how comfortable together we are.